A Birthday at Sea

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I absolutely love my birthday. I don't particularly enjoy getting older, but I certainly love celebrating. We've been at sea for several of my birthdays … November always seems like a good time to be on the move for the change of the seasons. This year is no different. Here we are on our way to South Africa and I'm turning a year older. No worries though. I'm a master at getting the most out of my birthday.

I always remind David well in advance (starting in October usually), that my birthday is coming up. It's not like he'd forget, but why chance it? Since we left before my birthday, we planned that our gourmet lunch at Bois Cheri would be a preliminary birthday celebration, a good way to get into the birthday spirit. I also suggested a few extra treats for myself since we don't often exchange gifts. I've got a new Mauritius tea mug and a t-shirt … after all, my birthday only comes once a year.

Once we're at sea, I count the days like a little kid. Then, it's finally the day. David greets me with a Happy Birthday song when I wake up for my midnight to 0300 watch. Sometimes he makes a card if we're not seasick and he takes care of cooking for the day. I make sure to stock the ingredients for my special birthday meal and there's usually a dessert involved.

There's limited merrymaking on the actual day, but that's okay because this is where the celebration becomes virtual. I have every intention of extending my birthday festivities to the other end of the passage in Durban, South Africa. Why wouldn't I? Virtual celebrations aboard are quite imaginative. We sit in the cockpit and I start describing a perfect day in Durban. The key is the imagery that we can conjure up while we're imagining what the day will be like … from a sunny, warm day walking hand in hand along a beach to what we might have for dinner or how good a glass of cold, bubbling champagne will taste after a couple of weeks at sea. Maybe we'll go to a park or on a safari … the possibilities are endless and so are our imaginations.

I guess the key is knowing that my birthday celebration isn't just a one-day affair. In my mind, November was created just so I'd have an entire month to celebrate.

Speaking of celebrations, don't forget to check out Days and Ways to Celebrate 2015 … a whole year of celebrations to ponder and plan for.

 

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Days and Ways to Celebrate 2015:

365 Days of Celebration
by Marcie Connelly Lynn

 

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Every day of the year can be a reason to celebrate. It doesn't have to be a big blow-out celebration; sometimes little celebrations are just as much fun. You just have to enjoy celebrating the obvious and the not so obvious. Something different every day. Perhaps you're looking for an idea for a different sort of party or get-together with friends. Are you a teacher and need a way of getting your kids motivated with history or geography? Maybe your children are spending way too much time playing video games or watching TV and you're looking for some fun alternatives for them. Maybe you just need a pick-me-up during a long, cold winter or on a rainy, summer afternoon. Pick a day … any day and make it into a holiday. Tailor it to your own needs.

In my research, I've been able to find a reason to celebrate 365 days a year … some years 366. Quite honestly, when I can't find an applicable holiday, I make one up. That's permissible. Life's short and you have to celebrate when and what you can.

Some holidays are celebrated on the same day each year and some float. Sometimes there's disagreement as to when the day should actually be celebrated. Really, it makes no difference … go with the flow. Some trivia, some history, some cultural awareness, some total nonsense!

So welcome to 2015...the 2015th year of the Common Era (CE) and Anno Domini (AD) designations, the 15th year of the 3rd millennium, the 15th year of the 21st century and the 6th year of this decade.

Life's an adventure to be explored and celebrated. So enjoy every single day!

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Thinking Ahead

Recently while chatting with a young couple who want to go cruising someday, they commented on how much advanced planning or organization was necessary to live on a boat full time. I got to thinking about that, because some things are definitely well-planned in advance and if it's important, it goes on a list.  

provisions

 

Fuel, food, water and propane probably top the “thinking ahead” list just before leaving for a passage. These are the basic biggies for advanced planning, but there seem to be a zillion other little things to think about. The assumption is, of course, that the boat is shipshape and ready to go before we even consider heading out.

Spare boat parts usually fall into David's bailiwick. How many spare parts are enough? (This will be a Blue View blog post on its own.) Keeping track of what we've used and what needs to be purchased is a joint effort. We keep a running list in a special notebook of ordering details and specifics on just about everything in the boat from oil filters and zinc anodes to spare starters and alternators. There are so many systems on the boat, keeping track of all the spare parts and their locations can be a challenge (another future blog post?). One fellow we met said “Why keep spare parts aboard when you can order them and have them shipped anywhere in the world?”. He obviously never spent time in the Patagonian Canals or crossed an ocean when something broke and needed replacing … immediately.

 

varnishing

 

While we're on the subject of parts, project planning requires that we have all supplies necessary in advance of beginning the project. Whether it be varnish and brushes for brightwork maintenance or epoxy, timber and paint for planned deck repairs, everything has to be aboard before the project is begun because we can't always assume what we need will be available in our ports of call. Repairing the decks and doing a yearly varnish job in Vanuatu were perfect examples of this.

There are other little things to consider in advance like making sure the laundry gets done at the last possible minute before we leave because I never know where and when I might have the chance to do it again other than by hand. Or, if we plan to use the freezer, defrosting it well enough in advance, so that it's ice-free and back down to temperature in time for everything to be frozen solid before we leave, but not so far in advance that it's frosted over again.

Thinking ahead might not have anything to do with a passage, like figuring out if something will fit in the boat before we buy it. One example was our Franken-mattress. We knew we'd have to modify it in order to get it through the companionway. What we didn't think about was whether all the sheets we currently had would fit it once it was modified. The new mattress is considerably thicker than the old one. We lucked out because the sheets we have accommodated the new mattress. Otherwise, we would have had to reluctantly purchase new bed linens (called manchesters in NZ and Australia, by the way).

Minor issues like whether a turkey will fit into our little oven or whether something will fit into the fridge can seem major if you've already bought the turkey and have no place to put it. It's important to have enough of everything, but it's a problem when there's too much. Even though we have adequate stowage space, there's only so much room available on the boat. No building an extra tool shed or renting extra storage space; it's all got to fit.

 

canning

 

Anything requiring lots of water needs to be done while we're at a dock. Whether it be washing down the boat, making a batch of brew or canning (preserving), it needs to be done while we have ample fresh water available. Same goes for power-intensive projects. When we're generating our own power, it's more difficult to get a sewing project done or for David to be drilling or using power tools. In an emergency, no problem, but using up power just to complete a casual chore, not so much.

While in larger ports where medical care is available and accessible, we usually plan our dental visits, eye exams and whatever else is required. Once we're at sea or in remote little towns or islands, we've missed our window of opportunity.

Also while in port, we make the most of internet availability, doing research on places we'll visit, downloading maps and other cruiser's notes on ports along the way, sending photos, etc. Though we have SailMail at sea, it only supports text email (not internet) and we can't send or receive attachments.

 

holidays

 

Then there's planning for holidays. Sounds frivolous, I guess, but it's really not if you'll be at sea for a holiday and you want something special on hand. We've been at sea on Thanksgiving, Easter, for birthdays and several other holidays. If I want to prepare a special meal or bake something for the occasion, making sure that I've got all the ingredients and accompaniments aboard are important.

What about thinking ahead to birthdays and holidays back in the States or bills that need to be paid. If we know we'll be out of internet range, we make sure all gifts, cards and definitely credit card payments are scheduled in advance. Having internet, by the way, has been a Godsend when it comes to ordering gifts on line, sending e-cards and sending electronic checks and payments.

Probably one of the most difficult aspects of planning ahead is where we intend go next. It seems that we rarely keep to a plan. If we did, we would have completed at least two circumnavigations by now instead of working on completion of our first. There's thinking ahead and then there's actually doing what you thought about.